Pule Letswalo
PASTOR • HUSBAND • FATHER • COUNSELOR
What if investing in your marriage before the wedding could save you the cost of a divorce?
Pule Letswalo
PASTOR • HUSBAND • FATHER • COUNSELOR
What if investing in your marriage before the wedding could save you the cost of a divorce?
“How Do I Know If I’m Marrying the Right Person?” by Pule Letswalo
A Fail-proof Guide to Choosing the Best Partner for Marriage.
pule letswalo
Helping you choose wisely before you say “I do.”
Pule Letswalo is a Pastor, certified marriage counselor, author, and an inspirational speaker passionate about helping people discern wisely and prepare well for marriage.
Through his work as a marriage counsellor, Pule has helped individuals prepare for covenant marriage, equipping them to approach the decision of whom to marry with wisdom, intentionality, and biblical conviction.
His work is focused on helping singles develop the clarity, character, and confidence they need to enter covenant marriage well and build marriages that are thriving, fruitful, and God-honouring.
WHAT I DO
Keynotes, Sessions & Bookings
Whether you’re planning your wedding, preparing for marriage, or looking for a speaker who brings wisdom with warmth, Pule helps you start well and build to last.
MC Services
A refined experience for celebrations that deserve distinction. Pule creates a wedding experience your guests will remember long after the day is over.
Pre-Marital Counselling
Prepare for the covenant of marriage, not just the wedding. Invest in building a strong marriage, rooted in wisdom, honesty, and faith.
Speaking Engagements
Practical, biblically grounded teaching that moves audiences from feelings to wisdom, and from fantasy to faithfulness.
THE BOOK
How Do I Know If I’m Marrying the Right Person?
A Fail-proof Guide to Choosing the Best Partner for Marriage.
What if investing in your marriage before the wedding could save you the cost of a divorce?
If you are in a relationship and wondering whether you are truly marrying the right person, this book is for you. Perhaps you are deeply in love, planning a wedding, or simply hoping that the person you are with is the right one to marry. But marriage is too significant a decision to build on chemistry, potential, promises, or butterflies in your stomach. Before you say “I do,” you need to ask the questions that matter, confront the things you may have been avoiding, and learn how to discern the difference between what feels good and what is truly good for your future.
If you read this book, you will be challenged to invest more in preparing for your marriage than preparing for your wedding. You will be invited to look beyond appearances, emotions, and the fantasy of finding “the one,” and instead discover the biblical principles that can help you make one of the most important decisions of your life. Provocative questions will be asked, gently guiding you to confront hidden or difficult issues you may have been avoiding. This is not a book about finding a perfect person, it is about gaining the godly wisdom, discernment, and courage to choose wisely before making a covenant that was never meant to be entered into casually.
By the end of this book, you will be able to:
- Discern wisely by knowing what to look for and what not to ignore in a potential marriage partner.
- Distinguish between godly love and emotional infatuation, so that butterflies do not make decisions your wisdom should be making.
- Recognise red flags and confront difficult questions before they become painful realities in marriage.
- Prepare for the covenant of marriage, so that you invest in building a strong marriage rather than simply planning a beautiful wedding.
- Look beyond how strongly you feel about your partner and evaluate whether you are truly aligned in faith, values, character, and purpose.
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